It is natural to be angry and mad with everybody (most probably yourself too). it was just impossible. Listen to him. I’m torn apart because I love my wife. I find it difficult to understand why your lover decided to dig up all the pain after it seemed to have healed for you. I seriously got so depressed for that reason that I couldn’t have kids anymore but thank God my girls were so active and had my husband And I running around like crazy, that I was able to get over that depression and with my husbands love everything was great. We had so much. I will be the one paying for this for the rest of my days. Very interested to read this article and following discussions. We now have a 2 yr old and ditched the long distance relationship (thereby giving up on our planned goals and starting over with different goals which also is another chunk of pain having to change our plans because of that dilemma). He continued to mistreat then make up sex.. We slept together. This devistated me again as we just lost our child in March this year the pain was unbearable…I was lost in a state of shock he lied and denied it went as far as doing a 3 way call and telling her it was NOT his baby in front of me… Months past he became distant. We are from Florida. Why didn’t he take up your offers of help? Is a tough situation he says he loves me but the other women is giving him a child, his first born. 2years later I wasn’t aware until he called me and told me that he had a child from a one night stand.. this absolutely broke my heart, I thought I was the only one with his child, I thought it was special that I had his baby. Azt állítják rólam, sokoldalú fotós vagyok, és minden helyzetben kiismerem magam Több éves hazai és külföldi referenciával rendelkezem. Fő területeim: esküvő fotózás, család – , portré – , glamour – , és reklámfotózás. The day after Christmas she revealed the gender to my husband. What do you think he’s learnt from these experiences? He sometimes tell a lie and say he doesn’t want to hurt me. I do not want any contact but unfortunately there is a child. She also doesn’t want the child around me because I don’t want our child around the homewrecking whore and honestly has no reason to be. Now that I know, he feels relieved and thankful that I forgave him but it’s the sadness and emotional pain that he has given me is the one that’s deeply hurting him. If he is willing to see a therapist, I think this will provide a platform to talk about what has happened. You heard it with your own ears, she is not the person she pretends to be, not the person you thought she was. I was planning to propose in the next few months. I suggest couple counselling for you and your husband. I’m afraid they are people pleasers who say to each person what they think they want to hear. My husband had been messing around with a coworker for a couple years and I found out probably over a year ago. Link to update: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/56jaej/update_i_33m_overheard_my_girlfriend_28f_making/. My husband and I love each other so much I know that for a fact but he started working more and I started working more and I missed my girls so much that I think my depression kicked in again. Cassidy you spoke my mind. I got home and came in the side entrance to the basement so I could grab the necklace and then surprise her. On top of it all we just found out that our son has relapsed with cancer and will be needing a stem cell transplant with only 40% survival rate. Forgive me but from the start, I know she had the kids to win him. These women r the work of the devil.my husband was depressed when he had his affair not 1 but 2 kids this person say she had from him. It seems like you’ll never be able to put things behind you because there’s a permanent reminder of his infidelity. He wants to have the child to carry the family name. I was going through a divorce after 18 years. At the moment we aren’t together and have not been for a while. He tells me he wants us to be a family again and get through this together. What am i supposed to do? My guess is he will try to keep you, so have a long think about hat he would have to do to make you stay and how you’re going to be certain he will stick to this plan. I don’t know who else to talk to. I just confronted Him and that was it. When I ran away from a abusive cult unbringing I became involved with a man with who I fell pregnant to. Apart from this situation he says he wants nothing to do with them. My girlfriend, "Jenna", and I have been together for 2 years, a little over. I found out I had ovarian cancer at the age of 30 and ended up with a total hysterectomy and my husband was so supportive and always has till this day. Now remember, when i left him before, i was unaware of the other woman at that time and the pregnancy. It is natural to be sad, upset and angry about this situation. My bf spends 3 times out of the week home with me and then the rest to help her and the baby claiming he wants to “bond” with his child otherwise the child won’t know who he is. I have been previously married and dealt with an infidelity so I chalked it up to him coming out of a marriage and things moving too fast with us that this was him panicking…. Ask him about his problems (even though I know he caused them by cheating)? How could this be my life? She was insisting he move back in with her and divorce me. I just found out a paternity test needs to be done, it’s just something I’ve always suspected to be true anyway. Meanwhile he has a son he doesn’t see much who is 2 1/2 and still doesn’t speak, isn’t being socialized with other kids, and is neglected a lot of the time (she drank and smoked and took some drugs throughout her pregnancy so I imagine he has some form of fetal alcohol). I’ve given him 39 years of my life! I wish i did. I don’t feel anything for the baby other than if it’s my husband’s baby, then it’s my family. His excuse later was that he was scared I would “run for the hills” if I knew everything. She’s requesting us to pay child support, and we’re at a dilemma of whether or not to try to be a part of this child’s life… Which would be difficult since she’s in another country… Or to just pay support and some day the child can contact us. I confronted him and it all came out, they in fact hadn’t ended the affair at all and were now expecting a baby, he had been living 2 lives. Not sure how all this is going to end up. I second this. He also said if OW committed suicide (she has threatened hundreds of times) that he would actually have a huge sense of relief. Szeretek a természetes fényekkel fotózni, de ha nincs más megoldás, marad … TovábbEsküvő fotózása Sopronban – Egy fergetes buli a határ mellett, Itt az élő példa miért nem kell kétségbe esni ha szeszélyes az időjárás.Többek között azért sem mert olyan fotóid lesznek ami másoknak nincsen. My daughter is now in college in new york at one of the ivy league school.. she was raise by my self without any father figure with her & very proud of her achievement. Knowing this guy’s MO I’m not sure hes telling her the full truth about his affair with me and his lack of truth with me. Which in my opinion, makes it even more hurtful. I have questioned everything that has ever happened in the past wondering if this is the first time he’s cheated or not. It says nothing about OP but everything about her. We now have two 8 year old girls, born exactly 2 weeks apart, and also 4yr old b/g twins. As a result of tensions between him and his assistant, after I found out, he left his job and went to work in another city about four years later. Be kind to yourself and don’t expect too much. I finally came out with ‘its us or them, no two ways about this now’. Could you and your husband go for couple counselling, so you have a neutral person who can listen to you BOTH and find a way forward. Of course that put a terribly strain on him. Good luck and once again, please be kind to yourself. So what’s changed. Look back your posts and imagine it is someone else who is reading these messages. When you have got everything out, you will begin to pick through the wreckage and see where you go from here. Begging for honesty. She also didn’t want to be labeled as a homewrecker. Yes my man cheated with young girl that young enough too he is daughter and got her pregnant now he have a 3 mo baby with a 27 year old girl and he 60. I haven’t figured out yet whether to stay with him or divorce him. And I can’t see him being so careless. I’m sure he had many women before and after me. I just cannot understand what he thought was going to happen when the baby was born? I think about this all the time. But I took it a few times and shut it down. (and it turns out, she discovered the truth a year ago but was afraid to tell me) And the majority of his family knows the truth and nobody said a word. I just want to smear both their faces in the concrete!! It sounds like you have taken on a big job – helping a child that has lost his mother. I think you should advocate for all men to become sterilized at the time they produce sperm and then get unsterlized when they get into a committed relationship with a woman they would like to procreate with. Instead, I am frustrated by her current behavior, which I view as manipulative and exerting control in the only way that she feels she can. She’s living with him now because she has no job and lost her apartment (how conviently). You are in my prayers. Help I need help I don’t know what to do I feel so much pain. I feel like they’re going to hate him and they’ll instantly judge me for not leaving. My husband has been having an affair with his secretary for 14yrs. Don’t go into a corner and die. We have had no contact with the woman since he left. I made the conscious decision to stay. The most laughable thing here is that she says you're not smart. Edit Wow, hey thanks everyone! Take things one day at a time – especially as you’ve already had so many changes with the arrival of your own daughter (congratulations). Soon after we broke up. Could you be co-dependent? Then my sister asked if I had cum all over her back. Your job is to look after yourself and if that means taking a holiday from his self-imposed crisis, well that sounds great to me. When you’ve both talked and both listened, you can begin to discuss how to approach the issues about the child as a team. I am devistated!!! Unfortunately, it’s going to be a long haul. I want to believe this so much and try to put things back together. I would suggest couple counselling or if your children are suffering family counselling too. I feel like my life is on standstill right now. I have done so much to try and save my marriage and this has just torn me apart. It's horribly embarrassing and hurtful. I want no part of him EVER finalizing my divorce!! I promise you he’s won’t like this and she won’t like it… but he has a choice. But he has had health issues ever since, hospital stays, constant visits to specialist which is our currently our situation. The little girl mom have a boyfriend Excellent advice for men and women. What will the rights of the mother be? Found inside – Page 199We knew that they had killed the man in the first room. ... We had got out of bed. My boyfriend pushed me and the child, whom I held in my arms, to a position behind the door. ... He had his back to me. He shouted at my boyfriend. after my husband use 2 cry 2 have a child in his life. And after my step-daughter was born, she has made it so that he is only allowed to see the baby at her home- which she shares with her family members. [both fire De-Veganizing Rays at Todd, stripping him of his powers. Sometimes, we find ourselves in situations where we have to dish out a little more love and understanding than we initially thought. Hopefully, when you’re down, you can reach out to your friends to sound off (rather than keeping it yourself). My other comment is that this is probably not the time to make big decisions about your future – like divorce. Some of these guys don’t even want to be with the other woman it was just a “mistake”. So what should you do? It wasn’t always good. I don’t kn ow whether I am just being selfish or what. I want to stay with him and rebuild our family but it’s hard. they know what’s going on, but they know Dad’s not going anywhere, and we still love each other. Hi I’ve been married 23 years and found out 9 months ago my husband had is having a affair of 5 years and has a 2 year old son… I forgave him and brought he’s son into my family we have 3 kids together but in these 9 months he’s lied to me over and over telling me it over when I’m fact he was still with her… he’s left me on numerous occasions only to come back and tell me I’m to important to him and he loves me and then I catch him again and again… I even look after he’s child on a weekly basis the other women is seriously not right I have had to get restraining orders against her and harassment cases as she send me the most vial messages all the time… I just don’t know anymore what to do he’s now told me it’s over she has threatened him assalted him swears at him calls her own child a cunt and yet he still talks to her she manipulates him with the child we have proof she is an unfit mother and yet he still does nothing it makes me very sad and questioning wether I should even carry on fighting for my marriage my kids are affected when I question him he gets defensive and lands up me feeling guilty… he even changed he’s pass words on he’s phone…. This way it would look as though he had the baby when we were separated. Nálam baráti hangulatban zajlik a fotózás, garantáltan izzadás-mentesen Lendületes, pörgős és vidám fényképezés a mottóm. A few months have passed and I am slowly and painfully accepting it. T h e S u m m e r o f M y L i f e [ C h a p t e r S e v e n t e e n ] A b b i e ' s P O V The night flew by quickly, and soon it was 11:30pm. I guess I’m just looking into insight on how to handle her. I love my husband but I am so hurt. I would also expect him to feel guilty and try to keep her sweet – with minor concessions (as far as he’s concerned) – and major betrayals (as far as you’re concerned). I was shocked, but I love my husband and I want to try to make our marriage work. Anyway, that led to me filing for a divorce. I found out he was still texting her behind my back. I just think it's important for everyone to have this sort of independence. More like, from the description in your letter, floundering around in every direction and improvising from moment to moment! Facebook- They are friends, but he won’t accept me. (not many people know including my family). Seems like she is board with him now she said the oldest child is of my husband.
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